Fr Darwin Peter prefers to stay back rather than return to Rome so that he can carry on with his initiative to rehabilitate fishermen families who have been bereaved in coastal villages. Cyclone Ockhi had claimed 144 lives from Vallavilai and seven other parishes under the Latin Catholic Archdiocese of Thiruvananthapuram. Only 12 bodies of fishermen belonging to Vallavilai, Neerodi, Marthandanthurai, Eraviputhanthurai, Chinnathurai, Thoothor, Poothurai and Erayumanthurai were recovered. Fr Peter, 44, the parish priest of Vallavilai St. Mary’s Church, is doing what no Government does. Vallavilai is a fishing hamlet which is on the Kerala border, 38 km from Vellayambalam Bishop House in Thiruvananthapuram. Clad in a white linen shirt, denim jeans and sandals, Fr. Darwin can pass off as a ‘cool guy’ in your neighbourhood. But the moment people start pouring in to his office room for blessings, paltry donations and other services, realisation dawns that the ‘cool guy’ is indeed the parish priest at Vallavilai whom everyone considers as an incarnation of God.
Seeliya, Stellus Mary, Jeena and Amaladas at the Animation Centre at Vallavilai in Tamil Nadu. (Photo: DC)
They have reasons to consider him so as here is one priest who has come up with free training in stitching to the widows of all the 33 fishermen belonging to Vallavilai who perished in the deep sea in Cyclone Ockhi. Son of Peter Manuel, a former fisherman and Ances Mary, Fr. Darwin has also formed an Ockhi fund where 50 paisa will be donated from each fisherman’s catch of Rs 1,000 (Re 1 will be going to the St. Mary’s Church fund) and the computerised accounts are managed by his office staff systematically. Fr. Darwin had served in Rome for eight years where he got his PhD in ‘Image of fish and fishermen in the Eucharistic Liturgy’ from St. Anselm, an international Benedictine University in Rome and even got a gold medal. On Wednesday, 180 students who have completed graduation, engineering and management courses attended a job fair where several IT companies had promised jobs under the aegis of the Employment directorate of the Tamil Nadu Government. Fr. Darwin has already submitted a Detailed Project Report on having a fishing net manufacturing unit worth Rs 1.5 crore to cover the 1100 fishing boats from the eight parishes.
Stellus Rockioas, Father Darwin Peter and Anish Joseph. (Photo: DC)
20 women from Vallavilai will be given jobs in this unit where a private NGO in Chennai has promised to provide the machinery within the next few months. “In Vallavilai alone, there are 182 big fishing boats where a majority of the fishermen catch sharks and tuna from the deep sea as far as Oman, Diego Garcia and South Africa. Each boat costs between Rs 70 lakh – Rs 80 lakh and a majority of them had lost their fishing boats in Cyclone Ockhi”, said Fr. Darwin, who originally belongs to Erayumanthurai parish, to DC. Fr. Darwin’s noble gesture doesn’t end there. He went to all the private schools in Vallavilai and spoke to the management and got them to waive off a year’s school fees of Rs 20,000 – Rs 30,000 each for 11 students in the parish. Sensing Fr. Darwin’s dedication to the parishioners, a local private school run by Marthoma Church has promised free education for life to a seven-year-old boy and his sister who lost their father to Cyclone Ockhi.
Sensing that the family members’ morale was very low after losing their loved ones, Fr. Darwin contacted IMS Retreat Centre at Punnapra in Aalappuzha and Rajagiri School of Social Sciences, Kochi, and they came to Vallavilai and provided meditation and counselling services. He also held seven medical camps where doctors and nuns from Chennai, Dindigul and Thiruvananthapuram, Thrissur and Pala provided their services. Different varieties of rice, chanadhal, potato, onion, pulses, coriander, chilly and turmeric powders, coffee, tea, sugar, maida, tamarind etc were provided to the parishioners. Father Davis Chiramel of Kidney Federation of India donated one container of rice and green gram and Social Service Society, Kollam and Thrissur donated 20 sacks of rice for each of the eight parishes in Kanyakumari district.
The list is endless and the Kerala Government should take a leaf out from Fr. Darwin’s initiatives and emulate it in the coastal areas of Kerala where over 100 fishermen died in the State in the cyclone. 45-year-old Amaladas who lost her 50-year-old husband on November 26 last year, on the eve of Cyclone Ockhi hitting the Tamil Nadu and Kerala coasts, told DC that initially Fr. Darwin provided Rs 10,000 to all the families in Vellavilai from the Government fund. “Sadly, we don’t want food, but we wish our husbands had come back. Fr. Darwin has been providing Rs 3000 since the last two months to all the families in Vallavilai who lost their breadwinners. This is not enough, but still something is better than nothing”, said Amaladas who has to take care of her aged parents as well as 20 and 17-year-old daughters.
26–year-old Anish Joseph and 32-year-old Stellus Rockioas returned to Vallavilai on Wednesday and came to see Fr. Darvin after more than 45 days in the deep sea where they hunted for sharks and tuna fish. They thanked their lucky stars for not going to sea during Cyclone Ockhi while lamenting that some of their friends did with unfortunate results. "We did not go then due to a marriage in the family. A majority of our friends got trapped inside the enclosure in the big boats of 65 feet as they got scared on seeing the high waves. Unfortunately except five boats, the rest of the 177 boats do not have insurance as the yearly premium comes to a whopping '99,000 which most of us cannot afford”, said Anish and Stellus.
Unfortunately the family members of the 144 fishermen are yet to receive the promised '20 lakh from the Tamil Nadu Government. As per the notification released by Gagandeep Singh Bedi, Agricultural Production Commissioner and Principal Secretary to Tamil Nadu Government dated January 21, they are expected to get the first instalment of Rs 10 lakh soon. After six months, they will get the second instalment.
Fr. Darwin has no time to rest. He presides over five services daily and when he has free time, he travels to Fort St. George where the Tamil Nadu Secretariat functions to battle the red tapism. He also takes the neighbouring parish priests in a rented car to Chennai seeking possibilities of novel rehabilitation schemes for the parishioners to lead a decent life. No wonder a dozen Bishops including Soosa Pakiam, Archbishop of Thiruvananthapuram, priests and nuns made a beeline to Vellavilai and the neighbouring parishes to take stock of the yeomen service Fr. Darwin has been rendering.
Widows turn to tailoring to stitch up their lives
Nearly 24 widows and 49-year-old Stella Mary who lost her 17-year-old son in Cyclone Ockhi look up to S.Sobha, stitching instructor at the Animation Centre at Vallavilai. Since the last two weeks, from 11 am to 3 pm, these widows are being trained in tailoring. Thanks to Fr Darwin Peter, the widows are fast picking up lessons to start life anew. One-year-old Biphana Bersiga was nudging her mom, Seeliya, out of hunger and sleep. But a shy Seeliya was slightly hesitant to breastfeed her little one while at class. But the moment she was asked about her 31-year-old husband who had gone to the deep sea on November 24 last year, three days prior to Cyclone Ockhi hitting the Kerala and Tamil Nadu coast, emotions welled up. A teary eyed Seeliya recalled that Binu had bought a boat worth Rs 45 lakh along with three other friends. She says she does not know how to go on with her two children and aged parents, Amaladas and Daisy.
S. Sobha (in blue dress), tailoring instructor at the Animation Centre at Vallavilai in Tamil Nadu along with the other widows. (Photo: DC)
“When I am here at the stitching training centre, I try to forget my grief. But the moment I am at home, I feel suffocated. My elder son, five-year-old Bibin Savio keeps asking me every day when his father will return from sea. Usually, my husband used to return in 45 – 60 days time”, said 27-year-old Seeliya. All the 25 young women in the makeshift stitching training centre at the Animation Centre were silently crying when Seeliya bared her heart to DC. It was tough to decide who to talk to. DC finally spoke to a young girl who could easily pass off as a 15-year-old girl. In chaste Malayalam, she said she was 29, had two toddlers and originally belonged to Valiyathura in Thiruvananthapuram coastal area. She had got married to Sajju, 29, who belongs to Vellavilai four years ago after a love affair.
“I had learned stitching earlier. But now I have learned here how to stitch a sari blouse and churidhar. I do not know what lies ahead as my children, Sigana and Dhaiyonika are three and a half and one and a half years respectively”, said a teary eyed Jeena. It was heart-wrenching to listen to Stella Mary when she recalled that her 17-year- old son, Dhanish had stayed afloat in the deep sea for more than three days. But with no sign of help from the Coast Guard or the helicopter of the Indian Navy, a tired Dhanish was pulled down into the water while crying out for food and fresh drinking water. “I wonder why God is punishing all of us. I feel that a huge rock has been placed on my chest. My son had gone along with 10 other fishermen in the boat and eight of them returned. They couldn’t help my son. I don’t want any compensation. I want my son back”, said Stella Mary in a voice which has turned hoarse due to incessant crying.
Already 22 sewing machines have been purchased by Father Darwin Peter’s friends and another eight more will be added soon. Though they were not in a mental frame of mind to talk about their future, Fr. Darwin is hoping that stitching will provide a means of livelihood to these widows. A majority of these widows’ husbands had gone 150 - 200 nautical miles away from Manjappara near Minicoy Island in Lakshadweep when Cyclone Ockhi hit on November 27 last year.
