Sometimes bullying can be a once in a while activity among friends for fun. But when it persists and is done by a group of students targeting one child, it can have a negative impact if he is of a sensitive nature. In a group when there are two or three strong children and one timid child, he becomes an easy target to bully. We normally expect children to jump, play and engage in conversation. But if a child is not seen interacting with friends, appears withdrawn and keeps to himself, it is the first sign that he is being bullied. This has to be taken note of.
If a teacher notices a child in a classroom not interacting or participating in activities other than academics, it is an indication that he or she is not fine. The teacher has to become friendly with the child, make an extra effort and find out why he is not socialising with those of his age group. Even parents can do their bit by approaching the teacher if their child is being bullied. Other students in the class too must encourage the student being bullied to react. He should be advised to report the bullying to the teacher or tell his parents about it.
School managements, for their part, need to make it clear to teachers that bullying cannot be tolerated.
The teacher, in turn, should speak to the students who are doing the bullying, and punish them if need be. They should be made to understand that bullying is not a fun activity and there are better ways to enjoy themselves.
Dr. TS Chandrashekhar is a Consultant Counselor.
