Adventure and Caution Must Go Hand in Hand
Fun is fine, but safety and comfort come first
This audacious couple came to me for help after they decided to play the role of a gymnast and a clown? Both were clutching their backs, obviously in pain. Bored by the monotony of the man on top position, they decided to do something zara hatke! Inspired by the vital question of how a kangaroo would mate, the man, armed with the book 365 positions for 365 days for empowerment, decided to take advantage of the sumptuous springs in his bed.
God knows how this was humanly possible but if what this very adventurous man said was to be believed, he entered his wife standing on the bed and as she had her legs straddled around him, he jumped like one would on a trampoline and attempted to flip over in that position.
There are others who have tried to re-enact Mission Impossible-III and Matrix in their bedrooms with Collateral Damage! It’s true what they say about life being a motion picture and a circus. Positions are an important ingredient of sex. They are excitement boosters. No doubt about that. And it does help kill the monotony by trying out different positions once in a while provided both the partners are comfortable with it. While there is no harm in trying something new, one has to keep in mind what is actually feasible in reality. A Tom Cruise or a Keanu Reeves stunt on screen ought not to translate into real life. A broken pelvis is tougher to live with. A book may boast of a million positions, but technically not all of them maybe practical. One has to exercise wisdom to gauge that. Another important point to remember is that positions alone are not responsible for pleasure during sex. They are just the add-ons. A man or a woman may prefer a particular position not necessarily because it maximizes their pleasure but because they are both comfortable with it. There is no one position that is superior to the other.
The ability to try out new, exciting positions will also depend on the physical fitness of the individuals. Only by improving the muscle tone and the dexterity of the body especially in the pelvis, one can look at the odds of adventure. Aerobics is a great form of workout. It strengthens and makes the musculature more flexible.
Only a strong hip can withstand the rigours of the in and out movements. For inspiration, observe Prabhu Deva’s gyrating jhatkas in the movies!
