The availability of free pornographic content online has created a new kind of sexual culture in this day and age. Even the most conservative societies in the world cannot ignore the effect porn has on the way our sexual expectations from a relationship are shaped. But that does not mean that every move that you see onscreen will translate well in real life.
The porn industry is very much like the mainstream movie industry in the sense that it sells an ultra-glamorous and unrealistic view of romantic and sexual relationships. Here are the top five sex moves that happen in porn but will totally fail in real life.
Double penetration
A recent study of popular porn shows that nearly one in five scenes feature double penetration, according to Ana Bridges, Ph.D., a psychologist who studies the effects of porn on romantic relationships. In fact, in another study it was revealed that only 3 per cent of men and 1 per cent of women have tried the ‘two-penis act’ in real life, according to Men’s Health.
If an actual couple tried out something like this in their bedroom then it would most likely cause a lot of pain to the woman.
She moans the entire time
Sorry guys but women are not that easily aroused in real life as they appear to in porn. Not every single touch is orgasm inducing no matter how hard you try.
So the next time you watch a porn actress just moaning non-stop for 20 minutes on-screen, you should know better.
Extreme dirty talk
Studies show that nearly half of the scenes in popular porn include obscene name-calling. You ladylove wants you to make her feel desirable and not like a slut. Statistics show that even though 20 percent of women have actually experienced this in the bedroom – there was hardly anyone who enjoyed it.
If you are looking for an alternative for this then try the dirty talk in a question format rather than insulting your partner. If you plan to do something sexually aggressive then you must ask your partner first if she is okay with it and only then go ahead.
The money shot
About 81 per cent of the time, male porn stars are seen climaxing anywhere but near the woman’s vagina, according to research. What’s more, when experts conducted a survey asking women how they felt when their partner did this to them in real life, a whopping 80 per cent of women revealed that they did not like the idea of a man finishing on her face or in her mouth.
You could instead try to ejaculate on her stomach, breasts, or back but only if she doesn’t mind.
Instant hardness
Male porn stars are never seen with a flaccid penis onscreen. This can give viewers the idea that we should be in a state of arousal the moment we take off our clothes. But anyone who has had a normal sex life knows that this is far from reality.
It makes only more sense when research experts around the world agree that the more a man watches porn, the more like he is to feel embarrassed about his penis size and erection capabilities.
