Contrary to popular belief, women, like men, also have their share of sexual fantasies. One of the advantages of understanding your lady love’s sexual ‘turn ons’ without being judgemental is that it could lead to even hotter sex.
In fact, some fantasies can be really wild! For example, fairly accomplished women harbour fantasies of being dominated in bed.
Here are the top sexual fantasies that women dream about, but more often than not, don’t choose to reveal.
Having sex with an alpha male:
At least popular culture seems to have got this particular fantasy spot on. If you have any doubt, then just take a moment to remember the millions of Fifty Shades of Grey copies that were sold worldwide because its male romantic lead was the quintessential alpha male – handsome, powerful and unbelievably rich. Nearly every wildly successful romantic movie or novel tends to have such a male protagonist.
Examples of alpha males could be showbiz celebrities, sports stars and even members of the royalty. In short, guys that most women generally swoon over.
Being dominated:
As startling as it may sound, women at times want to be the vulnerable damsel. Even women in their 30s with very successful careers might desire a man who can sexually dominate them, reports GQ magazine. The key quality over here is that this dream man should know how to please his woman and have her best interests at heart.
Sex with a taboo partner:
Having sex with someone who is out of bounds only ups the hotness level of a sexual encounter. This person could be anyone – a boss, friend, a relative like a brother-in-law or even a member of the same sex! Recent studies have even pointed towards human sexuality being a lot more fluid than previously thought. No wonder, experimenting with bisexuality is a popular fantasy among heterosexual women.
Group sex:
Many experts are of the opinion that the preference of monogamy isn’t exactly that much of a big deal for women if things are consensual and fair. This means that women are willing to be open-minded regarding polyamorous relationships if their partners are honest with them and take care of their needs. Threesomes and partner-swapping could be just the thing you need to add that missing zing in your dull sex life. The mantra is simple over here – the more the merrier!
