Our sexual psyches, experts say are complicated, according to a report by the Metro.
It is your choice what kind of pornography you watch, as long as you are within your legal rights.
But does the kind of porn you watch say something about your sexual preferences?
Earlier this year, Pornhub revealed the top searched words on its site included 'step mom' and 'MILF', the report revealed.
Experts say it is not because you want to act it out in reality but more because of the taboo aspect. "People find excitement in doing something they shouldn’t do," the report stated.
It also has to do with the feeling of wanting to relinquish control to someone more experienced and older.
"When a man is with a woman who knows her body, her desires, and is sexually confident and adventurous, it increases the chances (in fantasy and real life) that the man can give that woman sexual pleasure," Psychologist David Ley told Playboy.
Fantasies of rape are reportedly common in women, even though they don't really wish to be raped. Psychologists believe this stems more from the need to be dominated.
If you experienced harsh discipline that evokes feeling of guilt and inadequacy, then finding way to control "acts of discipline" in your adult life may take away the negative feeling you associate with it.
It is important to keep in check what you consume and to know you are entitled to keep your fantasies online. The goal you should aim for is removing the shame around things that turn you on.
