May the ‘force’ be with you

DECCAN CHRONICLE. | DR NARAYANA REDDY
Published Jun 16, 2017, 12:30 am IST
Updated Jun 16, 2017, 12:30 am IST
The quantity of semen and the force of its expulsion depend on how well one is sexually aroused.
Dr Narayana Reddy
 Dr Narayana Reddy

I am a twenty-year-old girl. My periods are late by 15 days. I never got involved in an intercourse. Is it possible to conceive if only the outer part of my vagina gets in contact with the semen? In my case, I’ve not washed my hands properly after masturbating my partner. I don’t want to visit a doctor in person or take a test. I don’t have any other symptoms of pregnancy. Please help. 
Theoretically speaking a woman can get pregnant even when the semen is deposited at the entrance of the vagina. However, this rarely happens in practice. In your situation, the chances of pregnancy are practically nil. The delay in getting your periods may be due to other reasons like anemia, hormonal imbalance, etc. Wait for another three weeks. If you still don’t get your periods, consult a doctor in person.

After seeing many porn videos, I have come to the conclusion that the amount of semen which comes out is quite less and comes with not much of a force as shown in the videos. So, I request you to help me out in this matter because I am worried whether I would be able to satisfy my wife properly in the future or not.
The force of seminal expulsion and the quantity of semen have no bearing on a woman’s sexual satisfaction. A good lover is one who not only knows what to do but also knows what not to do. In other words, knowing your partner’s body and her emotions will help you to satisfy her better. The quantity of semen and the force of its expulsion depend on how well one is sexually aroused. If the arousal is high and the body needs a release with good force in large quantities. If you masturbate more out of habit than out of a need for release then the force and quantity will be poor.  

 

The writer is a sexologist. Mail him at dr.narayana@deccanmail.com

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