There are times when you wonder ‘Am I bad in bed’? Of course, you can’t ask this question you partner. And frankly your partner will not be 100 per cent honest about it, because they fear their answer might hurt your feeling.
At times you can just feel that something is wrong in your sex life and you also know when you are not performing good in bed.
But one shouldn’t be ashamed if these questions come to your mind. Yes, it’s annoying when you can't satisfy your partner the way you want. When you are stressed or not comfortable with your partner, at times can be the reason for your bad performance in bed. But the best part is one can always improve.
Here are some signs that you can easily fix and enjoy your sex life:
- Your enjoyment takes priority:
Remember it takes two to tango, one is never enough when you are having sex. If your focus is just on your satisfaction, then you need to take a step back and keep in mind that making love is a team.
Take care of your partner’s need and turn her on, if you do that then everything will work in your favour. You both can enjoy and have loads of fun when you have sex.
- When your focus is to just finish:
The biggest mistake is to thing about the end part. Sex is not a marathon nor a competition that you need to win. Don’t rush, take time, enjoy each and every move from kissing to foreplay to climax. Invest more time on foreplay and the result will be mind-blowing.
- When your focus is on orgasm:
We are not saying orgasm isn’t important but if that’s where your entire focus is, you can never perform better on the bed. There are times when your partner can’t reach the point due to stress or at times they are tired. Forcing them to reach the point is not only wrong but uncomfortable. Remember it’s a mutual act of love.
- When you don’t ask:
What you want plays a major role. When you pretend that you are enjoying sex, that's another sign that you are bad in bed. You are hiding and in a way you are letting your lover down. If they ever come to know that you were just pretending, the truth will be hurt them emotional and will make them question all the time you have spent together in the bed. Be a good partner, let your sex buddy know what you want, be straight.
