Being intimate with your partner is one of the best things that you experience early in the relationship.
However with time, the act becomes less about passion and discovery, sweet kisses and intimacy to a routine that might leave either one or none of the two satisfied.
In short, after a point of time, sex can start feeling pretty repetitive. Let’s face it, sex is a lot more than just some to and fro motions.
Come to think of it, one of our biggest sexual organs is the brain. The passion, the lust, the feelings, everything is happening inside the brain and one needs to spice up their sex life from time to time to keep the brain from not seeing sex as just a routine action.
As long as your brain remains excited and stimulated, the passion between you and your partner will remain like it was when you first laid your hands on each other.
The easiest way to spice up your sex life is by playing a few games. And here we list ten types of games for you and your partner to spice it up between the sheets.
Fantasy bowl: Write down five dark secret fantasies that you have in five individual sheets of paper and ask your partner to do the same. Fold them up and drop them into the bowl. Shuffle the chits and pick one and talk about it. While you are doing so, maybe you would like to dim the lights and find out what stimulates your partner in that fantasy. Before you even realize it, both of you will be really turned on.
Blind man’s buff: You will need a scarf, a necktie or a blindfold. Blindfold your partner and then go on to slowly kiss him/her all over the body, ravishing them while they cannot see you. Blindfolding not only heightens their sensory feelings but psychological vulnerability as well, which arouses them even further.
Role playing: You could pretend to be a doctor while your partner becomes the nurse on an errand. Role playing allows people to come out of their shells as they take on a new persona and psychologically allows them to experiment more sexually than maybe they would have originally tried. Your partner could also be a patient whom you give a ‘thorough’ check over. You could choose other characters as well. Anything that arouses you. Batman and Catwoman perhaps?
Prisoner: You tie up your partner to the bedpost with a handcuff (the kinds you get at sex shops) and his ankles as well then proceed to have your way with them. This again leads to psychological vulnerability which arouses them even more.
Naughty girl: Tell your partner all the wrong things you have done that day and proceed to give him a ruler to spank you with for your errors. It turns out that light spanking actually turns you on!
Strip questions: Both of you sit opposite each other fully clad and then proceed to ask each other a series of questions about the other. Every right answer saves them while a wrong answer means they have to take off a part of their clothing. Let’s see who wants to get out of their clothes faster. You could also use a variation where both of you wear old clothes and your partner tears a piece of clothing off at a wrong answer.
Blindfolds and ice cream: Another erotic game to send your pulses racing, it requires blindfolds and a tub of ice cream. Sit down and blindfold your partner and give them a spoon. They need to scoop out a spoonful of ice cream and feed you while they are still blindfolded. If any bit of the ice cream falls on your body, your partner has to lick it off you! See where the game is going?
Beach it up: Place a rug or a mattress in the room and then proceed to grease each other up with massage oil all over the body. It acts as an arousing mechanism and you will soon see the difference.
Deck of cards: Get a deck of cards and make each suit represent something. Hearts could signify kissing, spades are oral, diamonds are massage and clubs are hands on stimulation. The number on each card represents the seconds one has to perform the action. Pick out a card each time and have fun.
Watch/ re enact porn: Just lie down in bed together and watch a porn movie. Build up on your intimacy by slight touches and kisses while watching the adult movie. If you like role playing maybe you would like to enact the scene like its going on....