Most people think that foreplay is the prelude to a fantastic sheet grabbing sex. Ding ding ding! Shake up, wake up! If you thought that foreplay sets the game right, then this is where you are going wrong all the time. There are some important factors that have to be taken into consideration before you initiate it.
Set the ambience right
Imagine your hubby coming from work all tired and exhausted. Greet him with a warm hug and kisses to drive his weariness away. Lighten his mood and allow him some time to settle down and leave his baggage outside to be present with you at that moment.
Jaspreet Kaur (31 years) shares, “I know what works for my husband. Just before he is about to reach home from work, I dim the lights and play soft melodious music. The idea is to change the aura for my husband as soon as he steps in. For the bedroom, I light up aromatic candles – trust me this works wonders! You just need to know the aroma that is going to work in your case.” Start with gentle talks and caressing and get the action rolling.
Hygiene
Maintaining poor hygiene can be a big turnoff and everything can go downhill. This is not just applicable for intimate hygiene but also oral. You definitely are not going to kiss someone who is going to smell foul. If you have to go down south, hygiene at around the intimate area cannot be ignored. Ayan Mallik (name changed) 28 years shared, “I love to pleasure my girl and loved going down every time, until one catastrophic moment when she did not use her vaginal wash.”
If this could be a big turn off for Ayan, the same could be the case with your man. So beware!
Protection
Please keep at least two-three condoms handy, when you are trying to get into the frisky mood with your partner. Having unprotected sex can be exciting, but contracting sexually transmitted diseases isn’t that exciting. Keep STDs aside. It is a task to keep checking your phone app to keep a tab whether or not you have missed your periods – you’re pregnant! Live life the stress-free way – say yes to condoms!
Build the mood
Allow some time for your partner to settle down rather than straight going for the goodie. The more you take it to slow, the more you can enjoy the moment. There is absolutely no need to hurry unless you are going in for a quickie. Give foreplay the necessary time it needs for her to come to an orgasmic periphery and savour the moment.
Bhawna Paul shares, “I understand that my husband has too much work stress, but sometimes it becomes unbearable to deal with his bedroom quarks. He is someone who is up for instant gratification. Even if I am not ready, he will enter me and it is hurtful. There is some amount of cuddling, kissing and caressing necessary to get the fluids flowing.” She further stated that gradually she can feel the fluids flowing down her thighs but at the very start she experiences tears around her vaginal area due to friction.
For a holistic and fulfilling sexual experience, it is imperative that you take all the basic above pointers into consideration and you are good to go.
