When One Child Isn’t Enough

Secondary infertility is the inability to conceive or carry a pregnancy to term after previously having a baby. It is a reality that catches many couples off guard, as the common assumption is that once you’ve had a successful pregnancy, subsequent ones should be easier. Medical data shows that secondary infertility is more common and on the rise. Between 1992 and 2015, its prevalence surged from 19.5% to 28.6%, reflecting a growing but often overlooked reality for many families.

Many factors can contribute to this, including age-related decline in egg quality, hormonal imbalances, lifestyle changes, weight gain, underlying medical conditions, and even increased stress. For men, factors like declining sperm quality or quantity can also play a significant role.

The emotional burden can be overwhelming, often intensified by the unspoken expectation that once you’ve had one child, expanding your family should come naturally. This can lead to feelings of isolation, guilt, and frustration.

However, the path forward is clear. Advanced fertility options like ovulation induction, intrauterine insemination (IUI), in vitro fertilization (IVF), and even simple lifestyle modifications can significantly increase the chances of conception. Early consultation with a fertility expert is crucial to understand the root cause and explore personalised solutions.

Secondary infertility is not the end of your family journey. With the right medical guidance and emotional support, your dream of a complete family is still within reach. Do not let silence steal your hope – seek help, because every parent’s journey deserves a second chapter.