Sahher Bambba: Attendance at Bollywood Parties Doesn't Always Ensure Work
The actress also acknowledged the emotional toll this pressure can take. For newcomers without industry backing, the constant comparison who got invited, who got noticed, who landed a role can be mentally draining.
Actress Sahher Bambba, who has been a part of Pal Pal Dil Ke Paas and OTT projects, finally breaks her silence on one of Bollywood's most misunderstood assumptions: that going to parties and attending social gatherings is the key to getting more work. "The glamour of this industry often creates unrealistic expectations," shared the actress in a candid conversation. She further explained, "Merely being spotted at big events doesn't translate into signing films." “Jab tak kaam nahi hota…” she said, underlining that real opportunities depend on talent, timing, and genuine connections rather than appearances.
Sahher puts across an open secret in the industry: visibility perhaps helps, but it is far from the only factor that shapes an actor's career. In fact, for many newcomers, the pressure to be seen at every party, walk any red carpet, or be constantly "social" is just too much. Sahher explained, "Networking is great, and it can make a difference, but it will never replace the hard work of auditions, of being in workshops, of making your craft count. "People think if you show up everywhere, you'll automatically get roles. But that's not how it works. Meetings, auditions, workshops, these things matter far more," she added.
For Sahher, that assumption of parties translating into progress is a result of the outside world's fascination with glamour. The film industry often appears through a glossy filter, whereby flashing cameras and gatherings of stars seem to be the core of success. However, she wasted no time in dismissing that misconception. She mentioned that many actors who rarely attend parties nonetheless turn out successful performances since they focus on honing their skills.
She also shared that many young actors feel pressured to attend events purely to seem relevant. “There’s this fear that if you don’t show up for a while, people will forget you,” she said. But Sahher believes that true longevity comes from consistency in work, not social visibility. “If your work speaks for you, that creates far stronger recall than being photographed at a party.”
The actress also acknowledged the emotional toll this pressure can take. For newcomers without industry backing, the constant comparison who got invited, who got noticed, who landed a role can be mentally draining. Sahher encouraged aspiring actors to stay patient and focused. “Opportunities come slowly, but they come when they’re meant to. Don’t lose yourself in trying to fit into the industry’s social circuit,” she advised.
Sahher said she personally prefers investing her time in improving her craft rather than attending every event. Workshops, reading sessions, auditions, and script practice help her feel more prepared and grounded. “At the end of the day, when the camera switches on, your talent speaks louder than anything else,” she emphasized. Her candid take has resonated deep with the fans and young actors who often feel disillusioned by the industry's glamour. Sahher's honesty is a reminder that behind the lights and the luxury, Bollywood still remains a place where hard work and dedication matter most.
This article is authored by Sakshi, an intern from ST Joseph's Degree and PG College.
