Akshaye Khanna.

Farhan Akhtar’s Dil Chahta Hai completed 25 years this month, with the cast and crew coming together for a reunion in Mumbai on August 28. But Akshaye Khanna, who played Sid, was notably absent.

Aamir Khan, Saif Ali Khan, Farhan Akhtar, Ritesh Sidhwani, Dimple Kapadia and Sonali Kulkarni attended, while Preity Zinta, who played Shalini, missed the gathering but shared her nostalgia online. Akshaye’s absence, however, prompted fans to ask on social media: “Where is Akshaye Khanna?”

Known for his fiercely private nature, Akshaye has long maintained a distance from the glare of Bollywood. He avoids social media, rarely gives interviews and keeps away from the usual circuit of parties and public appearances. His increasingly low-key lifestyle has only added to his enigmatic image.

He is not alone

Rekha, one of Bollywood’s most enduring enigmas, has always kept her life fiercely private. Tabu is similarly low-key, while Aamir Khan often retreats from the spotlight during film projects. In the South, Ajith Kumar has long avoided spotlight, while Nayanthara followed a no-promotion policy for years, with a few exceptions recently. Writer-director Rumi Jaffery, a close friend of Akshaye Khanna, comes to the actor’s defence. “Akshaye was always like this. He has not become this way after Dhurandhar. Success has not gone to his head. He always avoided social gatherings and parties. It’s just that people are noticing it now. I think there is some virtue in a star holding back his public appearances. That aura of stardom is missing today as stars are too easily accessible.


 Rekha: “I am a very private person. And what you have heard about my home being my citadel is correct. I don’t allow guests in my house. But at the same time, I love people. I love company. I make new friends every day. But yes, there is a boundary which no one crosses.”


Raakhee Gulzar: “I never socialized. Even when I began my career, I was told to meet with people. Nowadays they call it networking. None of that for me. I am no one to judge actors who spend their entire day on social media. I am not on any, nor do I use WhatsApp. I am happy to spend time in my own company, my grandson Samay and the 100-odd crows who come to visit me every morning and evening for a sumptuous chicken feast.”

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