Relationship advice by Aditya Roy Kapoor

Aditya Roy Kapoor had never shied away from speaking about his past relationships. He had always maintained that his past has contributed to his performances.

“It all comes from real-life experiences and observations. Though you can’t have lived all those characters but you definitely pick up a few tips from your experience and it works,” he says adding, “I have had my share of relationships while I was studying. Definitely, the degree of obsession varies, so while I was doing this character in Fitoor, I did draw something from the past.”

So, how to do you define romance? “My definition of romance is undoubtedly the way you express your love to your partner. I have tried to make my girls feel that I love them and have shown my romantic side by buying her a rose, plan a holiday with her etc., to make her feel special,” says Aditya.

What’s your mantra for an everlasting relationship? “Give space to each other and keep in mind your partner’s likes and dislikes. Do something that your partner loves. Don’t impose too many  restrictions and give them their freedom. Well, I feel accepting them the way they are helps you maintain a healthy relationship.”

So, will Aditya not be over-possessive with his partner after wedding and will follow all that he just preached? “Let me at least decide to get into a relationship first and then I will come back and answer your query,” he says with a laugh.

After a brief pause, he adds, “I think I may be not be so possessive… Probably owing to my past experiences, I may have grown and evolved by then.”