Ladies it is not just the sexual things that turns your guy on. Surprised? Well there are some things that attracts them to you. Things like your silly smile when you do something stupid or when you truly focus on your work.
It is weird but you never know what random things you may do that can turn your man on. Cosmopolitan, a popular magazine, just laid down few guidelines, which may be helpful if next time he is not getting aroused by your efforts. If not high way then try ‘your way’ to reach your big ‘O’.
1. When he comes home to a big meal.
There's that old saying that the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach (which is dumb, because everyone knows you should break the ribs and enter through the chest cavity), but anyone can appreciate a home-cooked meal. Sometimes after a long week, it's nice to come home and have your favorite food waiting for you. If you took the time to do that for him, it'll warm his heart (which, again, you can access through his chest).
2. When you hold a baby.
Even if the thought of an accidental pregnancy makes him weep, seeing you with a kid still triggers thoughts of you with a family, "you know, in the future or whatever." Which is nice, considering the last time you mentioned children he said, "If we had kids then I wouldn't be able to buy a Playstation 4."
3. When he's sick and you run errands for him.
While he's at home being a giant baby with his head cold, you grab groceries, pick up his dry cleaning, and come home with coffee and medicine. If you'd let him get his goopy nose anywhere near you, he could kiss you right now.
4. When you're talking to his parents.
He loves seeing you get along with his family. He might even catch himself thinking how nice it is that your kids, Cool Thunder Pizzaguy and Optimus Prime, will grow up in such a loving, family-oriented environment. All right, so he hasn't given it a lot of thought, but he's given it some thought.
5. When you get him something just because you were thinking about him.
It's nice to get a new shirt, but it's even nicer when he realizes you got it because it made you think of him immediately. Plus, you obviously know his tastes. Instant, raging love-boner.
6. When you cook dinner together.
I guess you could say that spending a night in making a meal is a recipe for love. (I'm sorry.) But it's pretty much impossible not to have a good time cooking and flirting and feeding each other food. I'm pretty sure there's a scene like this in every Nicholas Sparks book right when the main characters are falling in love. Then one of them dies. There you go, Sparks, I just wrote your new book: We Were Baking a Cake and Then Things Got Real.
7. When you run errands together.
I've heard that when you get married, all you do is run errands together. In fact, the whole point of getting married is that you always have someone in the car to entertain you when you have to run a bunch of boring errands. Running errands together feels like being married, which makes his heart smile get a boner.
8. Having a tickle fight.
Every couple is in a secret tickle fight club. You're really not supposed to talk about it because it's lame. But when you tickle each other and roll around laughing and kissing, he's sporting a pretty big love-boner. The only exception to this is when you tickle him so much he can't breathe and he accidentally punches you in the eye while flailing.
