Mumbai: If you are just married, it is very important to make your first night special without blunders. Having sex isn’t the only special moment throughout the night but even other things do matter. Listed below are a list of blunders that need tio be avoided on your first wedding night:
Don't set a step by step formula to proceed with sex
You are all set to make love on the first night, but don’t set any specific formal step by step formula for it. Both of you need to ease the awkwardness of the entire situation. Relationship experts also suggested that asking your partner directly about proceeding to the action is a strict no-no. Try to get comfortable around each other, start complimenting your partner, and then move on towards resorting to romantic conversations. This can help you in building the momentum of the night.
Avoid talks related to financial standing
Even though money plays a major role in life, but don’t indulge in this discussion on your first night. First night is about understanding each other without investigating your spouse’s bank balance details. It’s better you don’t start calculating on how much money you spent for your wedding day. Discussions about funds will take away the essence of romance.
Don't ask about your past relationships
Don’t remember the hurts of your past relationships or dig up graves of your partner's past relationships. Remember always that the night is about you two, so don’t spoil it with bad memories of the past. While having sex, asking ‘Have you ever done it before?’ will be the biggest mistake. Instead, invest the time to create that ultimate moment of love.
