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Mr. DGP you're asking for a slutwalk

Mr. DGP you're asking for a slutwalk

Mr. DGP, so you refuse to protect me if I wear a mini-skirt?

Our Honourable DGP, Dinesh Reddy, passed a statement today with reference to the growing number of rapes and atrocities against women saying “It isn't a failure of the police force but the way girls nowadays are dressing" Excuse me, but, since when has dressing sense become a criterion for justice to be delivered?

A 40-year-old man attempted to rape a six year old girl in Vizag. The girl MUST have dressed provocatively at age 6. Parkwood International School’s director is alleged to have raped more than one of his students. Uniform is DEFINITELY inappropriate dressing, I suppose.

More than 50 per cent of rape cases are not urban.

Are you telling us rural women are wearing mini-skirts too? Oh, it’s probably the tribal women you’re talking about, right. A 12-year-old Dalit girl in Vizag was raped twice by her neighbourhood youth but the police, instead of taking action against the culprits, forced her sign a compromise letter in the police station. Did you find her clothing inappropriate, sir?

In a desperate attempt to save your force’s face, conceal their incompetence, you decide to tell us that if we get raped, it’s our fault.
Yes, girls dress ‘inappropriately’ at parties at nightclubs. Who issues permissions for these nightclubs, I wonder.

Mumaith Khan decides to shed a little extra piece of clothing in every movie. Who does the censoring, I wonder.

Women in provocative poses in absolutely unrelated advertisement hoardings are seen at most traffic junctions. Who checks on the regulation for these hoardings, I wonder.
If a guy looks at such a hoarding and is driven to molest a college girl at a bus stop, it is the girl’s fault right?

As a matter of fact, Mr.DGP’s statement is an insult to men too. He goes on about “men being provoked”.

Excuse me, sir, but that was a long time ago. An era where men used to be provoked by just 'looking' at the opposite sex. I believe we are civilised now. Much more civilised.

Sadly, sir, you seem to be still be stuck in that era. I beg you to not make men sound like deranged perverts.
What is appropriate dressing, anyway?
As soon as I turn 14, is wearing a skirt going to be deemed inappropriate for me? Maybe we should start imposing bans on all the skinny jeans in malls. Girls in salwar-kameez are NOT harmed ever, right?
I am a girl in the 21st century and I DECIDE what I want to wear. Yes, I dress attractively. Supposing a guy does find me attractive then, does that give the guy a right to go ahead and do anything he wants?
You justify your statement saying even colleges have dress codes these days. Do you mean to impose a dress code on every girl in the state? Guys can walk bare chested. No problem, of course not, right? Lungis are extremely appropriate? I beg to differ, Mr.DGP.
It comes down to this. Women have been vulnerable in the society and continue to be. I wish you and your officers could man up and elevate our position a little bit. Take immediate action against all wrongdoers. Let me not be scared of acid bottles and razors.

Instead, if you tell me you’re going to decide my closet.

Mr.DGP. You could soon wake up to a Slutwalk in front of your house.

- The writer is a 17-year-old girl from Hyderabad.

Your Comment
harish 08/01/2012 - 11:59pm

actually DGP was in lill bit emotion n said those words so take that statement lite yaar ...

Parikh 08/01/2012 - 04:32pm

Very legitimate argument to a rhetoric question. I totally agree about your concern with the dress code in today;s indian society and I also agree that this matter is very controversial as we cannot blame police for increasing amount rapes nor we can blame women's dress code. We do not have a direct solution to this problem. Since we do not have a solution to this problem we cannot make a correlation between women's dress code and increasing amount of rapes. Rapers need to be more civilized in society but again not all men are uncivilized.

Anand 08/01/2012 - 04:00pm

nice job Varsha.
People, come on stand up take up the moral responsibility in you. Let us be perfect first, then put the blame on others. This is escapism. This shows how incapable and irresponsible the system is. Let us out a stop to this blame game system.

Kierra 08/01/2012 - 01:21pm

I'm not esialy impressed but you've done it with that posting.

Vikram 08/01/2012 - 01:14pm

Good read, but looks like the writer is hell bent on wearing revealing dresses than to understand the basis behind it. At 17 years, she talks as if she has seen the whole world and accuses a Police Officer who has more experience in safeguarding us, twice her whole age. Girl, come to the real world and stop acting like a revolutionary, It clearly shows from your write that, you are not one.

sandesh 08/01/2012 - 12:41am

Miss varsha u r perfectly right. But dont u think that instead of arguing or fighting its better to take precautions, which is far more better than curing the wounds which only a girl gets? Even a police is a human and not a super human. Is any police person is responsible for rapes?

Prabhat Agarwal 07/01/2012 - 07:39pm

Awesome comments by the girl. Keep up the hard work.

Fahd Abdal Wahhab 07/01/2012 - 07:30pm

I have read this article and I disagree with the author and the DGP's statement.

First of all the DGP is wrong to say that there should not be any blame upon the police. There is apparent incompetence on their part and denying it merely poses as a veil infront of the truth.

Now the author, says inappropriate dressing is in no way to be blamed, and if that is what she means, is also wrong. Now, rape is the act of a sick mind and why a person would want to rape a woman is solely dependant upon the character, or the lack there of, of a person. Provocatively dressing is not the only cause of rape but it is definitely one of the many causes. And there are various studies and statistics in favour of this argument.

There are many from the younger generation who blindly follow fashion and resort to immoral dressing as a statement of personal freedom and misconceive it as themselves being mature enough to make their own decisions. 10 years later these same souls would look back and think, "what was I thinking, wearing that?"

Now, I'm not against personal freedom and I believe everyone have the right to choose how they present themselves infront of the society, but that doesn't mean people can do anything without any regard for others opinions. There are definitely ways to dress smart/chic/attractive without looking inappropriate/provocative.

If this new trend of 'slutwalk' is deemed to be the right way of protesting then these women who are rallying female empowerment are the same ones, ironically, pulling their kind down.

Sapna 07/01/2012 - 07:05pm

Very aptly put!