It is a known fact that men can easily get an orgasm while women take more time.
However, a recent survey states that 29% of men have sometimes ejaculated without feeling pleasure and 18% have even faked an orgasm. So it’s not just the females who can fake a big ‘O’, males can do it as well.
You might think that you know all about orgasm but there are many things you are clueless about.
- What is a male orgasm?
According to a report by wewoman.com, it turns out that when intense sexual stimulation leads to ejaculation, a nerval influx towards the genital organs provokes contractions at the prostate (the canals that transport sperm) and the pelvic muscles, the thighs and the base of the penis.
When all this is going on the breathing and heart beat increases and blood pressure increases as well. At this time men experience intense pleasure and then they release sperm that rise up in their penis in the climax.
- How can you improve orgasm?
Masturbation leads to orgasm via climax. The arousal during sex is much stronger and intense.
Pleasure is easy to achieve, but if men learn the art of delaying their orgasm, they tend to come more intensely. Delaying not only gives them intense orgasm but also satisfies their partner more.
- Why it's sometimes difficult to climax
The report also stated that, problems with orgasms can be down to physiological reasons (age or illness) or psychological reasons (depression, lack of self-confidence, anger, anxiety, guilt, boredom, fear of not being able to come,etc). Insufficient arousal and lack in desire also causes difficulty to get intense and satisfying orgasm.
If your man is having trouble climaxing, you might want to examine his lifestyle and see if there are any underlying issues that are making him uncomfortable or possibly ill.
An appointment with the GP is definitely a good idea - they can advise on the best next steps to take.
