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Surrogate baby boom in B’luru

Aug 10: After the IT boom, its the “baby business” that is booming in Bengaluru now. Childless couples from around the world are arriving in the city to “rent a womb” and pay a surrogate mother to have their babies. International agencies, which are fully in the loop about Bengaluru’s facilities, liaison between cuuples in their countries and surrogates in the city to see that the entire cycle of birth and delivery to the biological parents goes without a hitch.

Aiding the baby business are the direct international flights to the city and its rising reputation as a destination for medical tourism. The women—the backbone of the business—are usually from poor families who need the money they can make from renting their wombs for a sum. They have few complaints as they are well looked after during the pregnancy. The only hitch is they need to harden their hearts and let the babies go, severing all ties with them once they are born .

“We take care of the food, accommodation and the well being of these women, even arranging for them to be counselled during the pregnancy. We also make sure that all tests are done and doctors’ appointments are not missed,” says Benhur Samson, CEO Surrogacy Abroad Inc, an international surrogacy agency based in Chicago that liaisons with hospitals and agencies here to find the ideal surrogate mother and act as bridge between her and the genetic parents.

The surrogate mothers are housed together in suitable locations where their day to day activities are taken care of. They have collective puja and yoga sessions and are constantly counselled not to develop attachment to the baby they are carrying in their womb. “We don't even let them see the baby after delivery and nor are they allowed to breast feed them as it could lead to emotional attachment,” says Dr Ramesh B, CEO, Dr Ramesh Hospital. The babies are introduced to artificial feeds right after birth and are taken abroad to the homes of their genetic parents about a month later.

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George De Silva 23/08/2011 - 10:19pm

Love it. God bless these ladies with big heart and God bless India for allowing and leagalising surrogacy. Only a childless couple / individual would kno wthe pain of not being able to get to parenthood.

Lawyer 11/08/2011 - 04:57pm

Instead of promoting it, you should also write about the legal restrictions imposed by the rules on surrogacy such as: Number of surrogacy allowed for every woman, Surrogate mother's rights during the surrogacy period, issues like nationality of a child etc. Lack of knowledge may cause hardships and irrepairable loss for surrogate mothers!

Sidharth 11/08/2011 - 01:54pm

Is this not the height of out-sourcing, the cliche' being, even pregnancy is being Bangalored?
What are the legal implications of such surrogacy?
Can the lady who is "renting" her womb, after birth, claim that the kid is hers and fight the cause legally? Can she or her family get greedy and harras the "client" for more money for the child? This is atrocious considering things like renting a body or flesh trade like we want to call it, is illegal in India!
Surrogate mothers may be a boon to the child-less parents, but then, if all they want is a child why not adopt the parent-less kids!

June 16/09/2011 - 02:12pm

@Sidharth If you haven't been in the place of a childless parent you wouldn't know.. Surrogacy in this case it the last opportunity for some a couple that has spent money through a number of IVF attempts and done all adoption causes due to regulations are only given limited countries to choose from and then on top of that have to wait on a waiting list anywhere up to 7 years.. so I am so grateful the this option is out there and it's a win win result..

Sidharth 21/09/2011 - 02:11am

@June: I understand your point and also completely agree with surrogacy being a boon. I understand that adoption these days has a lot of complications, reason for which is human trafficking. Its interesting to note how one greed (human trafficking) can cause a boon (adoption) to be hindered.
My point still stands its ground, in cases of rich people (women) not wanting to spoil their figure, not wanting to go through ardous pregnancy related issues ranging from pain to risk of life and scared of after effects of pregnancy, choosing to out-source it. These are the people who use surrogacy too. It's a very sad and tough thing to say, when there are couples out there spending efforts and praying for a baby. However, if you look practically it can become an "out-source child birth" industry affordable only by the rich just like the 'full time house maid' industry or even the call centre industry. While there are thousands of childless parents who cannot afford it, still in vain.
Survival and breeding of the richest?
Why is no one considering the emotional trauma and moral state of the family / woman who is renting out a womb for as little as 3 to 5 thousand USD and has to let go of the new-born? What are the options of liability claim if that woman who rented her womb succumbs to breast cancer just because the baby did not breast feed after birth?
I am not saying surrogacy is bad - I just don't want my country's women to be used by some sorry rich people who love their comforts more than they should! It's sad!!
On the other-hand I also don't disagree with the benifits gotten by the surrogate mother and the parents getting a child. All I am scared and very bothered about is the boon's misuse. Regulation may hinder the process, just like it did in case of adoption but surrogacy should not become an industry because its social implications can be very negative and far reaching just for some short term financial gain.